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When Our Will Makes the Way

Yesterday I talked about willpower, today I want to just talk about the will.

We’ve already determined that will means “to choose”, however, I still feel people initially think it means desire, or an inner strength, that we don’t have control of.

The first time I really thought about the word “will” was in my mom’s kitchen 18 years ago, when my mom was talking to me about marriage. As I was approaching our wedding date, mom explained to me that all the lovey-dovey feelings Steve and I currently had would eventually change. Not that our love would go away, but it would be different. She said “Love is not a feeling, it’s a choice. At some point in your marriage, you won’t ‘feel’ like loving Steve, but you will have to choose to continue to love Steve.”

This, coming from a woman who has been married to her high school sweet heart for over 40 years now, was information I needed to know. WHAT? You mean, you had times in your life where you didn’t love dad? Yup! There were times where she chose to love him even when she didn’t “feel” like it. Of course, when you do this, eventually your feelings change, and catch back up again, but these are the times many marriages give up.

Well, fast forward 18 years and I can say – She was right. Yes, you heard it mom! You were right. ūüôā Steve and I have had those times and we knew in our heart we had to make the RIGHT decision no matter how we felt in the moment, and boy does it pay off – and the same goes for fitness.

We are faced with decisions everyday of things we don’t want to do, but things we SHOULD do. Like a marriage, we must make the RIGHT decisions, not the one that is easiest, or feels the best in the moment. Making the right choice will always pay off in the end.

Instead of saying “when there’s a will, there’s a way” we should say “our will makes the way” because making the right choices paves the way to success.

Don’t take the easy way out. It’s only temporary relief that prevents a long-term reward.

If this hit home for you, then read Steve’s blog today for more motivation and encouragement to do what is right for your body, right for your life.

WILLPOWER: The Big Fit Secret

When I think of willpower, I think of a supernatural superpower deep within someone’s soul that gives someone a unique mysterious ability to resist all temptation and wrong doing. A super inner strength to do the extraordinary.

I can stick my Face in the Hole of a super hero all I want, but I’m telling you right now – I don’t possess this wonder I speak of. When you are married to a “Steve”, who seems to have Superman Willpower, it’s easy to get discouraged as you watch those around you seemingly do the supernatural day after day. Then it hit me. Willpower is not something you¬†HAVE, it’s something¬†DO.

WILL –¬†Let’s divide the words up a bit. First, look at the definition of will. As you read it, notice all the action words.

will 1  (wl)
n.
1. The mental faculty by which one deliberately chooses or decides upon a course of action

2. a. Diligent purposefulness; determination
    b. Self-control; self-discipline

v.tr.
1. To decide on; choose.
2. To yearn for; desire
3. To decree, dictate, or order.
4. To resolve with a forceful will; determine.
5. To induce or try to induce by sheer force of will

POWER –¬†Let’s look at the word POWER. Again, more action words.

pow·er  (pour)
n.
1. The ability or capacity to perform or act effectively.
2. Strength or force exerted or capable of being exerted; might. See Synonyms at strength.
3. The ability or official capacity to exercise control; authority.
4. Forcefulness; effectiveness

I think once we accept that willpower is not some unexplained inner strength that you are either born with or you’re not, you can then begin to make serious changes in your life. Willpower is nothing more than choosing to control one’s actions. It’s not a phenomenon. It’s not a gift. It’s a choice – and the choice is yours.

Claim today: I will CHOOSE to have POWER over my body starting today!

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